ok i must be the worst blogger ever. i haven't written a post since March. It was a pretty busy year adjusting to a full time job, going to school and just the every day hassles of life. And now the year is almost over and a new fresh year begins.
2014 brought a milestone birthday for me so I'm ready to welcome the year 2015. A new year is always exciting because you just never know what's in store.
My son has been growing and getting pretty wild. I don't know if it's the environment at play school, me not being around so much anymore or just the normal craziness and hyperactivity of a 3 year old boy. yowzas. sometimes it's hard to keep up. i find myself telling him to "calm down" alot. this kid would jump off walls if he could. or maybe smash them in. i wonder what goes on his head.
his speech while not perfect has definitely progressed for the better. i would say there are still pronunciation or is it enunciation issues, but in general he has been stringing together more and more words so I think I am less worried about speech now.
Christmas came and went so fast - it was the first year opening presents actually meant something - more toys? more clothes? mine mine mine mine.
Ok so we are still working on the sharing issue, but I think he has a gotten a little? better. The tantrums seem to be rising though and it's hard to know how to handle them especially in public where you just want him to be quiet as quickly as possible, which means giving in? to his demands, which I know is not the right way to keep tantrums at bay. I know he knows they will eventually work to get what he wants and that's why they may continue indefinitely. But we need to hold our ground and ignore the tantrum even if that means our neighbor will hate us for the loud disruption to their meal or shopping experience and even if it means people will stare at us when he's lying on the sidewalk or screaming on a subway car. Joy upon joy of parenthood.
The other thing I learned this year about my son is he's one of those kids that throws up a lot. Man this year I have cleaned up so much puke. He was sick often this year which the pediatrician attributes to being at daycare and being surrounded by germs, but I mean it felt for awhile that this kid was sick every other week. Often times, it involved puke. I never imagined I'd be cleaning up so much of it, and I have a pretty sensitive stomach so while I'm cleaning up his mess, I often end up gagging the whole time. It would probably be funny if you were watching the whole situation from afar. He hadn't really gotten the hang of the concept "if I have to throw up, i need to find a receptacle to puke in". It has been more of the let me projectile vomit wherever i'm standing. Our last vomiting episode happened in the car on the way home from the Christmas festivities. Oh it was not pretty. Not only did he throw up all over himself, but then my sister caught a whiff and started gagging. She had to stick her head out the window. It was bitter cold. We pulled over on the road somewhere to try clean the poor kid up because it was just pools of throw-up everywhere. The bag was not given in time and I'm not sure if he even used it once he had it. I was driving at the time so I couldn't even tell what was happening back there...Anyway, it was freezing cold and here I was trying to wipe the puke off him and the car with the only diaper wipes I had. I started gagging because it was just really nasty looking. Yes I think it was more of a mental image that caused my gagging instead of an olfactory issue. My sis took the puke covered coat off and was able to change his shirt but it was freezing out. So we left the pukey pants on and just headed home to finish the clean up. I told my sis to tell my hubby to be ready upon our arrival for some major cleaning. Glad she was there to help. Bet she didn't feel the same way :p
I have a half day at work tomorrow for new year's eve which is awesome since I didn't take the week off like most people did. I'm ready for some exciting new beginnings for 2015..and here's to wishing you some happy changes for the year to come.